What You Should Do, When You have Kema Druma Dosha
The attraction to be alone, the situations can make you alone, mind full of imagination, the difficulty to adjust with the general public, family members,nd a distance even from your so-called friends. Getting hurt or being extra sensitive, and the urge to run away from the madding crowd. If you find yourself in any of this situation frequently check the placement of your Moon in the chart. Well, these things can take place due to a lot of other factors as well. These are the 3 conditions which form
What is Kem Drum Dosh?
(a) The moon has no neighbors [no planet in the 2nd or 12th sign from it], and
(b) There are no planets it’s Kendra [i.e. at right angles, i.e. in the 1st, 4th, 7th, and 10th signs from it], and
(c) There are no planets in Kendra from the ascendant.
Even if Rahu/Ketu are with Moon , or in any of the house 1st and 12th from the Moon, if the Sun is also 1st and 12th from the Moon, it is considered as Kema druma dosha
Why Kemdrum Dosh makes you love loneliness
For that, we have to understand the significance of the Moon in astrology. In astrology each house and each planet signifies something. Basically, astrology is a code language and astrologers decode that hidden messages in that. It doesn’t mean that Moon is “making you” to have Kemdrum dosh, but it is just an indication of you facing loneliness in your life. When you see the planetary placement, then you should not think that these planetary placements are just an indication of the possibility to have a certain occasion in your life. It is not a must or surety that a particular event should take place. There are chances for a particular event and you can prepare to go through, enjoy the benefits of such placements, or adjust your life so that it doesn’t affect you much. That’s why I love astrology.
Let’s come back to the lonely moon in your chart.
Moon signifies a lot of things in astrology. Moon means, mind, emotions, female figures, mother, joy, happiness, state of mind etc
In UttaraKalamrita , Maha Kavi Kalidas Says, Moon signifies Intelligence Perfumes, Hidden of ulcerous, troubles in the stomach, Woman, Sleep, Happiness, Liquids, Malarial, fever, Mother, Pearls, Salt,Mind, Muhurta or 48 minutes duration worship of Gauri Fondness of Curd One who does tapas or penance Strong at night Eating Facial Luster Good Fruits Fish and other Aquatic beings clothes.
Basically, the moon is connected with a state of mind and our mind is not in a physical form. It is not constant, It can go to any realm and avastha and if it is alone, then it means the thoughts and imagination will be uncontrollable. Because it doesn’t have anything to depend upon. When you have a lonely moon, you may confront that situation which may remind you that you are alone in the world. Where you may lose trust in others or your experiences in life can make you think more about dependence in the Lord almighty.
Is Kemdruma Dosha Fatal?
You must have heard people promoting Kemdrum dosh in a negative version, but I myself have this lonely moon in my chart, that too in the sign of a Jupiter( Pisces). I don’t feel any shame to say about this, because if it helps people why should I hesitate? I have gone through trials where I lose trust in relations. Let it be in familial relations or when we come across the public as well. It took some time for me to realize the genuinity in those relations and to take a firm stand on it. I myself is not very keen to make friends or I have realized that I am not at all good in making friends. My friends are not from an ordinary lifestyle because all of them are theologians. I dunno whether they also have a Kemdrum dosh in their chart because they also don’t have many friends from the outside world. I have seen myself that I have only long term friends, which means my close friends ( I have only close friends) are there for more than 15 years with me. Our bond is so strong where we share good things, bad things, and confess with each other. In my workplace also, I have only 2 people whom I continuously talk to, whom I am comfortable with. If I am not comfortable with someone. I just avoid all the confrontations with them, so that I can be happy. My happiness is important for me as far as I am not violating anyone’s happiness or I am using them for my pleasure. I am a person who always takes the strategy to take less luggage in the journey of life so that I can feel less burdened. I feel uncomfortable when I am in public or open to publicity. I have seen myself limited myself a lot and whenever I have broken this limitation stamped by the universe, me falling into unwanted situations.
Some people have told me that, they have always thought that I am a person with a vast friend circle, It’s a big NO NO. I can only take what I can handle right? I really don’t think, I will ever take any more friends into my life as well. The lonely moon can make you be very careful in relationships. That is the main indication. Those who have lonely moon in their chart, please make sure that doesn’t fall into sudden conclusions about any relations, it doesn’t have to be friends, but all relations which you are the main part. Or you have to take a stand that you are looking only at your business. As a person, with Kemdrum dosh, I took a long time to realize the importance of less luggage concept. Basically, our mind is delicate, so don’t take too much of burdens. That is the main idea behind the concept of Kemdrum dosh.
Once when you realize that spiritual path is what we are destined to, then we will see a lot of good things happening to us. Maybe in the past, we have depended on the mortal human beings and they were limited to themself, and due to those limitations, they could not contribute much to our wellbeing. Now we are free from that mortal bondage and connected to that immortal and pure force, then obviously nothing can stop us. The only thing that can stop us is our emotional being and negative thoughts which can tempt us to set our eyes again in the situations created by mortal man and mortal desires. We have tasted that confusions earlier now we want only that journey with happiness till the end so that our soul can depart freely, joyously to get united with that supreme force. When we stand on that decision and take action based on that we see that universal force showering good times into our life.
The limit of Vedic astrologers is that most of them trust in remedial measures, which never work. What only works in human life is realization and repentance and actions based on repentance. Any dosh, manglik, kemdrum, kal sarppi, shrapit dosha, pitra dosha we can see that in all these our mental state is the most important even if some of the ill effects are the direct contributions from past life Karma. I have always looked into my personal life and I have asked my god about his stand on past life Karma. When I have analyzed my family history I have seen certain experiences which I or my family members have gone through has definitely got a reason arising our ancestors’ life pattern and their Karma. Those who have overcome that difficult situation by faith and actions are doing well in their life, but those who did not have the courage to break the chains are still living in that agony.
Kemdrum dosh can give a creative mind, spiritual inclination, and a disciplined lifestyle, and a person with this yoga has to blindly follow that righteous path. That is the only remedy. The ultimate aim of kemdrum dosh is to take the human to trust only in the Lord almighty. This lonely moon helps the natives to realize the real aim of the soul is rest with our creator as we are just mortal human beings and our entire dependency should not be in mortal human beings, but in that immortal force who created this entire universe. Once you started realizing this fact, you will identify that that so-called Kemdrussh has subsided a lot and your personality is getting refined day by day. There are many successful people with this dosh so, you don’t have to fear the dire consequences written in ancient texts. It was written by Sage Parashara He was born towards the end of Tretayuga, lived to see the complete Dwaparayuga. I truly dunno whether we are in Kalyug because some people firmly say that Kalyug is over. So we have traveled along through time from Treta Yug and our physical shape also has been changes. So we don’t have to take that account by words but the psychological implication is very important. We have living examples too.
Kemdrum Yog/ dosh doesn’t make you poor, Bill Gates, has this yoga. All we Kemdrum guys have to keep our mind alert to Make our Moon happy through the righteous ways………….and that’s it. Let us submit all our worries in that superpower, then everything will be fine.
It is a call from the universe so that we can travel in a higher dimension. Enjoy it.